Animals as pets are a very big responsibility to take on. They require time, money, space, commitment, and quality attention. Many people take them on as a spur of the moment thing, or because of fond memories of a childhood pet, without realizing the amount of care that they need. It would be best for the person, as well as the pet, if some thought was given to what type of pet would fit in the particular situation of the person buying it. This would help ensure that the family and the pet have a long and treasured relationship.

The first thing to honestly consider is why you want a pet. Make sure that the reason for the pet is a strong one, and not based on nostalgia, or the puppy in the window, or because your kids want one. Then consider the type of pet that would best suit you, your family, your own particular situation and your living conditions. Take the time to thoroughly research the needs of that particular pet to make sure that it is a good fit for you. This will help you avoid heartache and frustration if you bring the wrong pet home. To help you with your decision, take a few minutes to consider these questions:

• Does the chosen animal suit you and your personal situation?
• Do you have the physical space that this choice requires?
• Do you understand the risks associated with owning this particular pet, if any?
• Can you physically handle and control the pet?
• Are there any common quirks or traits of your chosen pet that may make it difficult for you to live with?
• Are you able to provide it an appropriate living environment as well as proper nutrition?
• Can you honestly commit to the life of this animal? Some animals have a long lifespan. What will you do with the animal if you are not able to keep it?
• Are you willing and able to provide it with the amount of attention that it needs?
• If it is a type of pet that will need at least basic training, are you willing to train it and follow through?
• Is there a reputable veterinarian in your area that is familiar with your chosen pet if the need arises?
• Do you know what type of medical maintenance the pet may require such as vaccinations, wormings, etc., and are you willing and able to spend this on a regular basis?
• Have you educated yourself about any of the more common health issues of the pet and are you prepared and willing to care for them if they become sick?

Take the time to do quality research before bringing your new pet home. In this social media age, there are many groups that are dedicated to any particular type of pet, be it a dog, chicken, hamster, parrot or myriad other types of pets. Look for them and join those that seem to fit your needs and ask honest questions of the different experiences people have had with these types of pets. If possible, join a local group, or at least talk with local owners and perhaps meet them and their pet to see if that is what you really would like to live with.

There are also clubs, societies and associations that have been created by owners of the different types of pets. Many of them have educational materials available and the members are more than happy to answer any questions you may have. They would much rather talk with someone who is sincerely interested in learning about the animal, their care and quirks, then to have to rescue and rehome them from a home that should not have had them in the first place. If possible, attend a show or other event where like-minded people gather and talk with people there. Many of them are willing to talk with potential owners and if they really care about their chosen pet, will be honest with the quirks and idiosyncrasies that may be common in that pet.

Keep in mind while doing your research that each person you talk with will have their own ideals and may not find some things annoying that you might. The same is true for any articles or books that you may read. Remember too that all animals are individuals and vary from the “norm” in some way. But if a particular trait or quirk continues to come up, be aware that that trait is probably in most of the type of animal that you have chosen, and decide if it is something that you can live with comfortably.

Be honest with yourself and your evaluation of the pet. It isn’t fair to the pet if you really are not a good fit for it. If you have any doubts, perhaps you could work with someone who raises them, pet sit for someone, or possibly foster one to see if you are ready for that particular type of pet. There is no harm in saying “no, I really don’t think this will work out” There is a large variety of pets available, and you will find one that will suit you if you take your time and do your research.